I have been dating a girl for 3 months
He is using this as a basis for keeping me at arm’s length emotionally, and while I understand what he is attempting to do, it is becoming increasingly frustrating for me.
Regarding being exclusive, I told him that I was off of the sites in order to focus on “us”, and hoped that he would feel the same. He said his lack of contact was his way of “slowing himself down”, because ordinarily at this point in time, he would have had me practically moved in with him if I had come along earlier, and wants to build a solid foundation for a lasting relationship.I said "that's fine, i'm happy to see where this leads"after that conversation she has been ignoring my texts, and seems genuinely uninterested in me. tl;dr: dating this girl for 3 months, talk to her about becoming a couple, she starts to ignore me. /r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors.We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve.I probably wouldn’t be ready for matching grave plots after 3 months either, but I wouldn’t dodge the issue if it was brought up.I would also be making and taking week night calls, even as cranky as I get by the end of the work day.