Dating much older person
Fortunately, that’s changing as more older-woman and younger-man couplings make headlines.Actress Robin Wright, 47, is engaged to fellow actor Ben Foster, 33.It will happen a whole lot earlier for him than it will for you, so you’ll get jealous of his increased free time while he’ll start demanding more of your attention to fill up his long, empty hours, even though you’re still an occupied professional.You’re already going to have elderly parents to deal with as the years progress.This can’t quite happen if his youth took place a couple of decades before yours.He won’t be able to mesh easily with your crowd and will stick out like a graying, sore thumb at parties attended by fresh-faced 25-year-olds. These women will specifically go out of their way to make you feel unwelcome in their crowd.Pop star Shakira is involved with a man 10 years her junior.
And then there’s also the concern about one’s looks.
You will be a lot less likely to worry about money and stability since your man has had years more than you to figure this stuff out.
Two people attempting to make their way in the world and struggling financially in a relationship is one person too many.
Having to run around after a 5-year-old is hard work, especially if it’s been that much longer since your man ran around as a 5-year-old. Older people warrant more of it, so while your man’s white hair will give him all kinds of credit with the people you two encounter, you’ll automatically be dismissed as slightly inferior, regardless of your personal attributes.
By the time you settle down together, he’ll have amassed a bunch more life experiences than you (he’s had like 20 extra years).